Perhaps related to my recent post on overcoming overwhelm, I realised how much social media has been eating at my attention and time.
I don’t blame social media, I blame myself. And if I blame myself then I know I can take action to address it.
After taking a little time for myself at the weekend I reflected on where my time had been spent over the recent weeks. I looked at Screen Time on my iPhone to assess whether my suspicions were correct.
Yes, I was spending a lot more time than I wanted to on social media.
Mark Zuckerberg and his team have been excelling at pulling me into their world and keeping me there. I counted at least seven and a half hours of time on Instagram and Threads across the week. Even though I have a Screen Time limit of 30 minutes per day on all “social” apps on my phone.
Seven and a half hours… that’s on top of TV and other distractions. That’s time I could be truly resting, or giving my best to a creative pursuit, or exercising.
It’s junk food time.
As anyone who has tried Apple’s Screen Time features knows, “Ignore for fifteen minutes” is an easy button to press when you’re deep down the rabbit hole of your Instagram feed at 10pm.
I struggle with social media on my phone, not because I feel addicted but because I feel there is an aspect that is core to my job — to stay up to date, to post, to keep on the pulse of the industry.
But I realised, I don’t need these apps on the device I carry everywhere.
I deleted Instagram, Threads, Bluesky, and X from my phone. There gone.
Let’s see how this serves me — perhaps the added friction that I must go to my iPad or my Mac to access any of these social feeds will not starve me of knowledge or make me a social pariah like I think it will.
Perhaps against the rhetoric of AI being a socially destructive technology, there are ways it could be employed to save us time, to shield us from modern day distractions, to be looking out for us, rather than to work against us.
If you’re struggling with distractions yourself, here are a few resources I have found helpful:
- See where your time is going with Screen Time on iOS.
- Set up limits for apps and categories with Screen Time on iOS.
- A while ago I used to use Mailman to batch up my email — might also be useful.


